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December 12, 2008 9:41 AM Welcome, Winter The sun rises slowly on a snowy Saturday morning My legs are tingling. My ears are throbbing. My typing hands are shaking. I just dropped Kristi's van off at the mechanic's shop to have an out-of-province inspection done on it, a requirement for Alberta registries on any vehicle brought into the province before they will register it. When asked, the mechanic informed me they would try to have it finished by noon. Accepting their answer lead to a question in my own mind, What will I do until then? Recalling my geography and knowledge of the area, a solution presented itself: Walk to Coco Brooks and get a pizza. For breakfast? Why not? It's warm, I can wait there for hours if need be, and maybe - just maybe, they might have Internet access so I can finally update my web site! Well, here I am sitting, thawing out from the 20 minute walk in a deep freeze registering -21 degrees without considering the windchill, and my pizza has just arrived. It tastes fantastic, and is slowly but surely working warmth into my wind-worn body. Woe is me. Allright, it was a cold walk but I am being dramatic. It has been a long time since I've updated this page and I must confess, I am a little bit rusty. Some time ago I realized that the maintenance of this web site had been pushed to one of the far back corners of my life, and so then I decided it would be a good time to take a much-needed sabbatical from the writings that have adorned this page over the last couple of years. I think this has been the longest I've ever gone without updating it, with perhaps the only exception being near the very beginning of this web site's existence when I didn't feel I had much to write about. If no news is good news, then good news is no news and there has been a lot of good news in my life, a fact that would completely negate that whole cliche. So without further ado, here's what has been happening in my life in the past couple of weeks: The Wife, The Kids, and I Life with Kristi and the kids in town has been great. The youngest one had a birthday last month, and between her birthday party, Haloween, and Thanksgiving get-togethers, a lot has been going on. Kristi and I are learning how to live in the same city together, and believe me — it's a lot different being on the other end of the city than being on the other end of a phone! But I have to say, starting our relationship the way we did, where all we had was communication, that experience and foundation has been invaluable as we forge through life as a team. I never thought of myself as a selfish person, but then I didn't really have to share myself with anyone either. I suppose if we had no laws, we'd have no criminals. As I've begun to learn about and get to know Kristi, I've also been discovering myself as well. It's like playing a sport you don't often play — All of a sudden parts of your body you never knew you had are full of aches and pains. Those parts were always there, but it's not until you begin to exercise them that you notice their existence. My relationship with Kristi has exercised aspects of myself that I did not know existed, and sometimes there's a few aches and pains in the morning. But it is all part of the experience - living life together. Interacting with each other. Learning how to interpret each other. Exploring the subtleties of unspoken communication. Not a day goes by that I don't learn something. The girls have recently taken up calling me by a pet name they've seemingly coined, my first name verbally hyphenated and spoken almost as though in baby talk. It sounds like "Don-Don", and although hearing her well-spoken children revert to baby-talk irritates Kristi, I am quietly fond of the endearing nickname. This Friday is Busy's preschool Christmas concert, so I am going to take a few hours off work to attend. It doesn't seem like all that long ago I was on stage with my grade one class, performing a Christmas programme entitled The Gift Goes On in the sanctuary of the Full Gospel Tabernacle. And while I probably couldn't tell you what I ate for breakfast last week, I can still remember some of the songs we sang in that concert, so I'm excited to see what this one will look like, knowing it may well stick with these children for the rest of their lives. Kristi has taken a part time job at a local coffee shop three nights a week to help pay for the expenses raising two kids incurs. She's also volunteering at their schools as a lunch time monitor, and helps with the fun lunch days. Whatever I lack in selflessness Kristi more than makes up, especially when it comes to her kids. She would say it's a No-Brainer, putting her kids' needs first, but there are a lot of parents out there whose priorities trump those of their children's wellbeing on a regular basis. I can't think of a mother who is more active in every aspect of the upbringing of her children, in their schooling, their home life, their play time, their emotional and intellectual development, their nutrition, and their sense of family. She is the execption to every rule I know, and I love her very much. Who knows, maybe some day she'll be the mother of my own child? ( Did I just hear some ears perk up? ) While perhaps old news for some now, my little brother has become engaged to a young woman my Aunt Sylvia had been trying to set him up with for years. ( Who says persistence doesn't pay off? ) They ( finally ) met on one of his road trips through the states with some of the Sylvania guys, but didn't start corresponding after that for about a year. But one day he decided to email her, and several months later, as she arrived on a flight from Denver he proposed at the airport adorned in a big red heart costume and she (graciously) accepted. He bought a house a few weeks ago and takes posession mid January, and is flying down to see her in a few days to spend Christmas with her and her family before she flies back here to spend several weeks (if not months) as they prepare to get married, with a date set of April 19th. Whirlwind, anyone? She seems like a nice girl though, and I've never seen Blair so happy or so much out of his shell as he is these days, spending countless hours on the phone with her each night, and when he's not on the phone he is emailling her or doing something in preparation for their big day. Life, for him, will never be the same. Bringing Home the Bacon We had our Convergint Christmas party at Jubilations Dinner Theatre this year, and it was pretty good. The show we watched was called CSI: Calgary, and they did a fantastic job of impersonating various cast members from the real show. This one did seem to have a lot more song and dance than story and substance, and by the end I think most people were a little weary of the singing. The other two shows I've attended seemed, in my mind, to have more emphasis on the story than the song. The other drawback to having this as our Christmas party was the lack of opportunity to mingle with coworkers. There were people there that night I didn't even see! Hopefully we'll do something different next year, although I did enjoy the show. It's just not ideally suited to a social function like a Christmas party. My thoughts, I realize... Once I pick up Kristi's van, I'm going to drop it off at her house but then I need to go down to the courts to replace some buttons on several of their X-Ray machines, and also to complete the tie-in of two handicapped door openers for two doors that have been recently made automatic. No rest for the weary... Here I thought with this burst of cold weather, this would be the perfect weekend to stay at home, holed up with Kristi and the kids, get some good arts and crafts in, maybe some story reading, undoubtedly lots of monkey'ing and perhaps read a good book by the fire. It's almost one now though and I still haven't got the call from the mechanic to say I can come pick up the van. I'll admit - I'm not looking forward to the walk back down the hill in this cold, but I'm afraid it is the necessary evil standing obtrusively between me and the rest of my day. My latest project is something taking shape that I've had in the back of my mind for years. To give you an idea of what it is, let me present to you a couple of scenarios:
It is still in development & testing, but in it's current form it connects and integrates the following types of devices which are set up in my testing facility, aka my house:
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